I had a very nice annual meeting a few weeks ago with one of my favorite clients. He’s a nice man with a keen intellect. He understands investing and, even better, understands monetary policy. He ran a successful regional bank for many years after all. My client is someone I can talk with about Federal Reserve policy and its impact on the economy and the capital markets, and know he will have useful insights to share with me in return.
My client is 83 years old and suffers from Parkinson’s disease.
Google grace under pressure and it pops up as the title of Rush’s 10th album released in 1984, as part of a Forbes magazine title, as the title of a multimedia website about Burma, a Times magazine title about how to achieve it, ubiquitous is the phrase.
Yet search for its origins and one finds it first in a profile piece written by one Dorothy Parker about none other than Earnest Hemingway, when he responded to Parker’s question, “Exactly what do you mean by ‘guts’?” Hemingway replied: “I mean, grace under pressure.”
As a high school student I read Hemingway and remember that “grace under pressure” was Hemingway’s definition of courage, from a man who presumably learned something about courage during his time in Italy in 1918, where he was wounded while passing out supplies to soldiers. The Italian government gave him a Silver Medal of Military Valor for dragging a wounded Italian soldier to safety.
Guts, courage, whether one in the same or different shades of some deeper essence, my client has them in abundance. His cheerfulness, his obvious enjoyment of life, despite a debilitating disease that makes living a daily challenge, is uplifting and humbling.
And yet, there are complications that come with aging, complications made worse by chronic illnesses such as Parkinson’s disease. Complications that draw in family members out of concern for a father’s health, a mother’s well-being, or… the family money. Who is trustworthy and who is not? It’s a dilemma made worse by the interconnected society in which we live. A society that makes investment gurus available 24/7. shouting advice at us from our televisions, or confidently telling us which investments to buy and which to sell in blog after internet blog. AND WE LISTEN!
“My point is not that mass-mediated financial advice is kind (of) like professional wrestling. My point is that mass-mediated financial advice is EXACTLY like professional wrestling,” writes Dr. Ben Hunt, who is an expert in Game Theory, in a recent Epsilon Theory missive. “No one in his right mind should believe that mass-mediated (Jim Cramer) financial advice is the same thing as professional, individuated financial advice. And yet here we are, in a world where the notion of trust has become so warped that every day, thousands of investors question the trustworthiness of their flesh-and-blood financial advisors and tens of thousand more act on their own because they trusted a piece of Narrative-driven advice they heard on the TV or read in the newspaper (or a newsletter).”
But trust is a two-way street, and those flesh-and-blood financial advisors are increasingly unsure who they can trust in return as America ages. From a recent article in Investmentnews.com:
“In January, Michael Kotin, a financial adviser at Wells Fargo & Co., faced a dilemma. Two longtime clients, a couple who had been married for around 60 years and who were both well into their 80s, were accusing each other of being mentally incapacitated and unfit to make decisions involving a jointly owned trust.”
From the same article: “In other cases, financial advisers suspect that their clients are being taken advantage of by con artists.” And a few paragraphs further down, “These financial institutions are caught between a rock and a hard place,” said Elizabeth Loewy, who served as the chief of the elder abuse unit in the Manhattan District Attorney’s Office for almost three decades. “They don’t have psychiatrists on staff…I feel bad for them.”
Yes, my meeting went well and my client seemed comfortable with our investment posture. He understands, with a breadth and depth frequently lacking among many, that we are in an extraordinarily unusual monetary position, both in the United States and around the world. Uncertainty is extremely high. The unknown unknowns of former Secretary of Defense Donald Rumsfeld lurk in the shadows of monetary and fiscal policy today, gibbering quietly, biding their time. (No, no, no NOT the end of the world, but a time for caution nevertheless as the unknowns of experimental monetary policy and profligate fiscal policy become known).
And yet he is 83 and has Parkinson’s disease. He does sometimes repeat himself and can wander in conversation a bit more than he probably once did. Perhaps that is why his son picked up the phone the day after my client and I met and called the brokerage firm that custodians his father’s accounts. The son wanted to know more about me. Who was I? What was I doing with his father? What was I trying to sell him? All questions that his father is more than capable of answering directly, or at least that is my belief.
Of course I let my client know about the call and he is going to talk to his son. My client is very proud of his son; I have heard quite a few stories over the years, stories of his son’s successes. The son has every reason to be proud of the father in return. Grace Under Pressure….courage….guts…. in abundance.